Often we are asked why teenagers tend to do things that we would consider dangerous to themselves without any fear. At the same time, most rational adults realize the consequences and would not do these same acts themselves. In fact many teenagers tend to not realize how unsafe their acts are such as dangerous skateboard and bicycle jumps, speeding in a car, riding in the back of a pickup truck, and etc. The reason is that the brains of adolescents are different than the brains of adults. As adolescents get older, maturation happens from the back to the front of the brain with the frontal lobe being the last part of the brain to mature. The frontal lobe is the part of the brain that controls judgment and insight. This means that adolescents are wired to be quick learners with limitations on their common sense and sense of danger. Unfortunately it is a lot easier to take risky chances when you are wired to be impulsive and confident.
Behavior Modification
Acting out can be fixed with a positive, structured behavior modification plan. Incentives and frequent check-ins can make home life better.
Understanding Misbehavior
Some children misbehave and not realize they did anything wrong. It is important that you make them understand why and what they did was inappropriate.
Bad Behavior Tip
It is important to talk to kids about bad behavior directly after it occurs. “Out of sight/out of mind” can happen when done too much later.
Behavior Issues Trick
You can teach kids with behavior issues how others feel by role playing appropriate/inappropriate conduct. Try reversing roles and analyze together.
Behavior Insight
For behaviorally challenged kids, help them see another’s perspective. The trouble may be caused from not understanding how others feel.
Executive Function Problems
Children with executive function problems can appear to be lazy or behavioral. In reality their brains have trouble processing information.